Stefan Simms
Psychological Therapist, EMDR Practitioner & Counsellor
Stefan Simms
Psychological Therapist, EMDR Practitioner & Counsellor
Msc, BSc, BSc (Hons), PG Dip, EMDR L3, Accred UKCP; BABCP
Pronouns - Him/He
Stefan Simms is a highly experienced psychological therapist with over 20 years of expertise in supporting adults facing psychological distress. With a strong foundation in both NHS and private practice, Stefan offers a wealth of knowledge in delivering evidence-based treatments tailored to mild, moderate, and complex psychological problems.
Stefan is extensively trained in a range of therapeutic approaches, including Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). His ability to adapt these models to individual needs ensures that each client receives a personalised and effective therapy experience.
Clients value Stefan’s empathetic and collaborative approach. He prioritises creating a safe and trusting environment where clients feel understood and supported. Stefan's expertise in trauma therapy, particularly for military and civilian PTSD, complex PTSD, and childhood trauma, makes him a specialist for those seeking recovery from challenging experiences. He also provides support for a broad range of issues, including anxiety disorders, depression, stress, emotional regulation, low self-esteem, and bereavement.
Stefan is committed to delivering high-quality care through professional assessment, tailored treatment planning, and sensitive communication. He believes in empowering clients by helping them understand their difficulties and guiding them toward lasting psychological well-being.
If you're looking for a compassionate and skilled therapist to help you navigate challenges and achieve meaningful change, Stefan’s combination of expertise, professionalism, and kindness makes him an excellent choice.
Stefan is an expert in the treatment of the following problems:
Trauma
PTSD (Military /Civilian)
Compiled PTSD
Childhood Trauma
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Complex PTSD
Dissasociation
Trauma - Road Traffic Accidents
Anxiety
Stress
Agoraphobia
Generalised Anxiety (GAD)
Health Anxiety
Death Anxiety
Panic / Panic Attacks
Performance Anxiety
Separation Anxiety
Fears of abandonment
Social Anxiety
Phobias
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Work Stress
Emotional Regulation
Self-Harm
Personality Disorders
Depression - Low Mood
Depression - Major
Seasonal Affective Disorder
Loneliness
Low Self-Esteem
Grief / Bereavement / Loss
Stefan is also experienced in the treatment of the following problems:
Alexithymia - difficulty identifying / expressing emotions
Anger
Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
Bi-Polar Disorder
Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)
Body Image Problems
Chronic Fatigue / ME
Emetophobia (Specific Fear of Vomit)
Family Issues - Adoption
Family Issues - Blended families
Family Issues - Conflict
Gender Identity Issues
Health conditions - Acute / Long Term
Health conditions - Cancer
Hoarding
LGBTQI+ Related Issues
Narcissistic personality disorder
Pain management
Perfectionism
Personality Disorders
Problems with telling lies
Procrastination
Relationship - Attachment issues
Relationship - Codependency
Relationship - Communication difficulties
Relationship - Doubt in relationship
Relationship - Infidelity, affairs & betrayals
Relationship - Intimacy
Relationship - Separation & Divorce
Sexual Dysfunction
Skin/Hair picking (trichotillomania / dermatillomania)
Sleep - Insomnia
Sleep - Problems
Tinnitus
Work - Bullying
Work - General
Work - Redundancy
Models of Treatment Stefan is experienced in;
Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
BABCP Accredited CBT Therapist
Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT)
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
Eye Movement Desensitisation & Reprocessing (EMDR)
Integrative Therapy
Interpersonal Therapy
Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy
Person-Centred Therapy
Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
Rational Emotive Therapy
Schema Therapy
Solution Focused Therapy
Systemic Family Therapy
Stefan works with:
Adolescents (16 - 18 Years)
All adults, across the whole age range from 18 years +
Professional Accreditation/Qualifications
Msc
BSc
Dip Counselling Psych
PG Dip CBT
EMDR L3
Accred UKCP; BABCP EMDR UK NI
Languages Stefan is fluent in:
English
Spanish
Testimonials about Stefan
“I found therapy with Stefan ( Stephen) extremely helpful. He was very knowledge, empathic, compassion and helped me get my life back and reach a place in my life that never imaged that I could get to. For this, I will forever grateful” Anonymous
What is CBT?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is an evidenced based & well researched talking therapy. It is recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) for many mental health problems.
It is most commonly used to treat anxiety and depression, but can be useful for many other mental and physical health problems.
CBT focuses upon how your thoughts and behaviours impact upon your emotions and physical symptoms.
CBT is collaborative treatment and typically involves doing homework tasks between appointments.
It aims to teach you to become your own therapist, teaching you tools so you can keep using the strategies and techniques you have learned after you have finished therapy.
What is EMDR?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a therapeutic approach designed to help people heal from trauma and highly distressing experiences. When a person goes through psychological trauma or significant stress, their brain may struggle to fully process the event. This can leave the person feeling "stuck" with disturbing emotions, thoughts, and bodily sensations that resurface as if they were reliving the experience.
EMDR helps to reprocess these stuck memories, allowing the brain to resolve them in a healthier way. This often leads to a significant reduction, or even elimination, of distressing symptoms, improving emotional well-being.
Recognised by the World Health Organisation (WHO) in 2013 as an effective treatment for trauma and trauma-related disorders, EMDR has been extensively researched and proven to help with a wide range of psychological difficulties. The therapy follows a structured eight-phase protocol that ensures safety and guidance for the client. During sessions, bilateral stimulation—such as guided eye movements or tapping—helps the brain process traumatic memories in a controlled and conscious manner.
Many clients find that EMDR can lead to faster, more lasting results compared to traditional talk therapy alone, making it a highly effective option for addressing trauma and other distressing life events.