Feeling anxious about death is a common experience, but for some, these worries can become overwhelming and interfere with daily life. Death anxiety often overlaps with health anxiety, making it difficult to manage both fears at the same time. At My Therapist Online (MTO), our therapists specialise in evidence-based treatments like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and trauma-informed approaches including EMDR, to help you understand and manage these fears. With the right support, it’s possible to reduce anxiety, build coping strategies, and focus on living fully in the present.
Finding Balance in Menopause: How CBT, ACT, and Mindfulness Can Help
Making Space for Your Thoughts: A Kinder Approach to Anxiety
When anxious or distressing thoughts show up, many of us instinctively try to get rid of them, but this can often leave us feeling even more stuck. In this blog, we explore a different approach using tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), including cognitive defusion techniques that help you notice thoughts without being overwhelmed by them.
You’ll discover how to respond to your thoughts with more kindness and flexibility, using powerful metaphors like the “salt in an egg cup” to understand how space and perspective can reduce the intensity of unwanted thoughts. This article offers evidence-based strategies that allow you to move towards what really matters, even when difficult thoughts are along for the ride.
Struggling to Sleep During Exam Season? Evidence-Based Strategies to Help You Rest and Perform at Your Best
Mental Health Needs Maintenance Too: 5 Everyday Steps for Well-Being
Actions Speak Louder Than Words: How to Actively Support Your Mental Health
Mental health awareness is growing—but awareness alone isn’t enough. This blog explores why it's vital to take consistent action to support your mental well-being, just as you would your physical health. Discover the Five Ways to Well-Being, connect, give, take notice, keep learning, and be active, and learn simple, realistic ways to weave these into daily life. A practical, empowering read to help you move from awareness to action and improve your mental health, one small step at a time.
Perfectionism: When Perfection Becomes the Flaw
Perfectionism can seem admirable, but beneath the surface, it often leads to stress, burnout, and strained relationships. This article explores the paradox of perfectionism, its impact on mental well-being, and how to balance high standards with self-acceptance. Learn how therapy can help you break free from the cycle of perfectionism and embrace progress over perfection.
Recognising and Calming a Dis-regulated Threat System in Children
Helping a Child Feel Safe: Recognising and Calming a Dis-regulated Nervous System
In this article, we explore how to recognise when a child’s threat system is activated and introduce five evidence-based calming techniques adapted from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help them feel safe, connected, and in control. By understanding these responses and using simple co-regulation strategies, you can support your child in processing emotions in a healthy way.
If your child is struggling with emotional regulation, our expert child therapists can provide tailored support.
Helping Your Child Heal After Witnessing something traumatic: Gentle Strategies for Parents
Helping a child navigate the aftermath of trauma can feel overwhelming, but as a parent or caregiver, you play a crucial role in their healing journey. This blog provides practical, evidence-based drawn from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help your child process distressing events. From guiding them to tell their story with a beginning, middle, and end, to using creative play and reframing unhelpful thoughts, this article offers actionable advice to support your child. Learn how to gently address avoidance, regulate emotions, and rebuild their sense of safety.
The Challenges of 'Sandwich Carers' and the Importance of Self-Care
Discover practical tips and compassionate insights for sandwich carers balancing responsibilities for both older and younger generations. This article explores self-care strategies, building support networks, and the value of professional guidance, helping you navigate caregiving challenges while prioritising your own well-being. Empower yourself to thrive in this unique and demanding role.